well thank u to the reader who actually replied bak to me!! nice to know someone is out there! i don't care how young u r-- i totally agree with that--i have tried and tried to get my bf to realize this kid does not belong in our life--i feel if he wants a life with me like he says then his past should be left where it belongs -- in the past! i just feel like i'm getting myself in to too much bs--he has sooooo much damn baggage!! 3--maybe even 4 kids--plus this other one he wants in our life that isn't even his! plus all the exes i have to deal with--i want it to just be me in his life--ok i can deal with his kids but now the exes!! no one should have to put up with that. and his mother!! omg!! she is a bitch from hell--never can stay out of our business--she even tried to have him arrested! i told him he has to get a restraining order on her or he can just go live with mommmy!! makes me sick!!